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Comfort Agreement
- Lived Experience and I Statements
All of our groups are run by people who have lived experience with the group topic. Our groups are not a space in which to conduct research, observe, or take clinical notes. We speak from our own experiences. Please use I statements and refrain from giving unsolicited advice. What works for one person may not work for you, that’s okay, it may be helpful for someone else in the group. -
Expectation of Respect and Inclusion
We strive to create a welcoming environment for all people. Free speech is welcome, however bullying, harassment, gaslighting, or intentionally spreading any harmf or misinformation is not allowed in any Kiva Centers’ groups or spaces. The expectation is that we will treat every person with dignity and respect. We ask that you use the name and pronoun someone uses to refer to themselves, and refrain from commenting on other people’s body or appearance. -
Trauma Informed Groups
To adhere to our trauma informed model, we ask that everyone joining a group introduce themselves. When joining a group you may be asked to share how you heard about Kiva Centers. When joining an online group the facilitator will ask each person to come on camera and verbally say hello and introduce themselves. This is so we know that everyone joining the group is present and in a private space. -
Confidentiality
We honor the courage it takes to share openly. We love learning from one another’s experiences and stories, but please refrain from sharing someone else’s personal or identifying details and experiences outside of the meeting. We also ask that you not record or video a meeting, nor take photos or screenshots, especially without someone’s consent. We do ask that when in an online group you are in a space where others who are not participating can hear what is said in the group. -
Honor the Facilitator
Talking over one another is something that may happen. While online or in person, please allow the facilitator to support everyone who wants to talk to feel heard and given the opportunity to speak. Silence is okay, some people like to have a few moments to reflect, collect their thoughts, and focus on their wellness before speaking. -
Sanctity of Space
Please refrain from talking about religion or politics unless it pertains to your own wellness. Also, please do not enter our spaces with anything that is not trauma informed, such as drugs, alcohol, weapons or otherwise not safe for work items. If you are in an online group be mindful of your background. -
Listen with an Open Mind and Heart
We ask that whatever someone is sharing to stay curious. One person’s truth does not erase another person’s experiences. Sharing takes a lot of courage. Self care is important, if you need to leave the group please feel free to do so at any time. All of our groups are voluntary, and we believe that you are the expert on you!